Monday, December 07, 2009

Sinterklaas 09

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We celebrated Sinterklaas last week - a Dutch tradition similar to Christmas. I find it rather odd to be celebrating it, being used to Christmas and all. Unlike the magical and jolly Santa, Sinterklaas (or St. Nicholas) was an actual bishop once upon a time. His benevolence is what makes him remembered, and on Dec 5th the Dutch celebrates him by putting together a night of feasting on cinammon-based traditional sweets and cakes, exchanging presents and making good-natured fun of each other.

Which is precisely what we did.

The jokes we made were racist to say the least, politically incorrect, ignorant and downright offensive. Which is peculiar, given the fact that most of us were strangers prior to that night. I was invited by a friend of mine, so I did not know most of the people she invited. It was amazing how we immediately show what kind of a retard we all are - perhaps that's why the ice melted that fast, we were bonded by our retardness. It was a wonderful experience to celebrate Sinterklaas with you, the benevolent, jolly and loud retards.

Now - check out what I made. I have to warn you, even I felt abit pathetic as I spend the whole day crafting them. I woke up with a slight hangover, a reminder of the previous night's gala where 2 of my awesome friends swooped Oscars for their Rotterdam Tube Your World video! Them lovely ladies are Team 2 ;) I also love the video made by Team 5 and 16.

Back to the Cookie Decorating Session - I was honestly and unexpectedly enjoying myself, sitting next to the window and drawing on my cookies. I drew some of the things that I think best are best associated with Sinterklaas, namely the Zwarte Piet (black piet, the guy with a feather on his head. Indonesians would recognize him as Santa's helper who will put you in a sack to be enslaved back in North Pole! The beauty of cultural hybrid), Sint and his infamous red hat and of course PRESENTS! At times I got a little bit too creative and start making up my own, like this Jollie-Piet, Bono-Piet and Sponge-Piet with his jellyfish helper.





I know, at one point I felt like I'm looking at myself in pity.

Which brings me to my second point - sugar impedes hangovers.

The next day, I was bbm-ing with my little brother back home only to realize he aint so little no more. We would make the usual random, pointless, utterly ridiculous comments at first, before I asked him whether he is still considering upon studying abroad for his highschool next year. He said no, because he's loving his junior high years and the friends that he made too much. I commented, but how if the new friends that you will make is way better? Wont you regret the decision to stay?

To my surprise, he simply answered: "Well, it's an equal 50-50 chance. That's a 50% chance of me being better off here, which is not enough incentive to move". I was surprised by this simple, somewhat intelligent answer. I would never expect this from him, knowing him for 15yrs now. It dawned upon me how much older he's grown since I've left home. Next year he's entering highschool! I remember some years ago I was in highschool, and he was just this little snotty kid in primary school.

Time sure flies, I wrote to him. Uhuh, he said with his usual indifference.

Wednesday, December 02, 2009

An unexpected sweater visit

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A friend stopped by my flat yesterday to get her sweater, and we ended up talking until way past my bed time. Me and her, we always joke around on being hippies in the sea of economists. Which is rather strange since me and my dorky side enjoys snuggling behind economic theories, articles, thoughts, books and talks.

Having spent a year volunteering in Portugal, her way of living is what we call inefficient in economics term. She loves surprises, living by listening to her heart, thrives on being unconstrained by her agenda and most importantly is absolutely thrilled to meet and talk to new people. She is in short not someone you associate with organization and efficiency. Yet she couldnt be happier.

Me, on the other hand, acknowledges the scarcity of time, the need to produce the maximum value out of my limited resources. Dont get me wrong, I always take time for myself. I run every Sundays on the lake, I went to the market to drool over fresh fruits and vegetables, and my ideal Saturday is to lounge on my couch, a novel in hand and a cup of freshly brewed coffee peeking from the table infront.

However, I do completely realize how right she is. It is true that ever since I've lived here (in a "Western" world), I realized how busy we all are. We are running around from one appointments to another, meetings after meetings, talks cut short due to obligations. Not realizing how many opportunities of valuable rendezvous we missed unknowingly, unregrettfully.

Which brings me to my next thought: are we happier this way, to make use of our highly limited time here breathing, walking on concretes and tiles, or are we better off living without our watches, without our blackberries and unprecedented race towards the unknown?

I am still pondering on this, and yet I have to cut this post short as I have a meeting in 3 minutes.